Advice for my younger self
I walked through my local town centre earlier today and could see it was Freshers week at the local university. 18 years ago that was me!! Wow!! A whole 18 years ago… time really does fly by.
I found myself reflecting on all that has happened in my life since then and how I have learnt so much and gained confidence personally and professionally.
I believe that the older generations have a responsibility to the next generation to share insight and their experiences.
I’m sharing the 5 key pieces of advice I would give my younger self, this is what I wish I had known back then. I hope this is helpful for school / university leavers who are starting out in their careers.
My career journey since leaving University has not been a straight line! I’ve transitioned from accountancy and audit to a masters degree in economics, moved into consultancy and then banking. I actually have a post planned on career transitions as this is a topic relevant for almost everyone!
Network, network, network
When I started my first professional job after university I had no idea how important it is to build a professional network.
Now I genuinely believe that your network is your second biggest asset (second after the unique value that you bring).
Building a network requires initiative and effort to build relationships across your peers, seniors, juniors, those you admire and also those outside your organisation.
My advice is to build a support network of sponsors, mentors and coaches from day 1!
To me, mentorship does not necessarily need to be based on a formal programme or agreement, in fact a mentor can actually be someone you really admire, for example, someone who you’ve read all their books, listen to their podcasts or even admire at work.
2. Be bold, don’t be afraid to ask for what you want
Don’t be afraid to communicate your expectations and aspirations from the onset. I made this mistake! I assumed that people who worked around me would somehow read my mind and know how ambitious I was. I also never ever communicated my expectations on things like compensation.
3. Don’t be afraid to try something new
I know it’s uncomfortable trying new things and feeling out of your depth, but there is a lot to gain from putting yourself out there to try a new role or project. Just like exercise, the process can be painful, but the reward and highs when endorphins kick in, feel great.
Show up with a positive attitude and initiative but don’t be afraid to ask questions. As a graduate, apprentice or school leaver you have an amazing opportunity to learn from others.
Your career is an opportunity for growth and self discovery. Over time you will have a view of what you are good at, what you enjoy, what your values are, what you want to achieve and why, and most importantly what you don’t like.
Building your career takes time so be patient!
4. Don’t hide from mistakes
Mistakes are inevitable along the way and people are a lot more accommodating of mistakes when you are at the earlier stages of your career.
Don’t beat yourself up when things don’t go to plan, take it as a growth opportunity and spend time to reflect on what you could have done differently.
5. Any experience is better than no experience
Getting the first job out of university or school can be challenging, it may take time, but know that anything you can do to get hands on experience is worthwhile. Even if it is not in your field of interest, do it! A multitude of work experiences in different settings builds character and a unique perspective. Don’t compare yourself to others, you are on a custom journey and it is not a race to a subjective finish line.
So please, enjoy the journey of learning new things, it can be a lot of fun and you will make great friends along the way.
Remember life is about balance and so your career should not be all that you do, health, faith and relationships, values and self-care are what carry you along the journey.
